First, before you nervously look down and wonder if your wedding veggies are big enough to satisfy your wife, have no fear.
I know that penis size has long been a very controversial topic.
Many men are still convinced that the amount of pleasure and satisfaction increases in proportion to the size of their tool. But, is this really the truth? Yes, size does matter, but it’s not physical size that matters.
It’s the level of confidence you bring with you when you’re lying in bed.
Lack of self-confidence will make you dissatisfied
Confidence in bed is a tricky thing, especially if you’re not the most experienced sex partner. If your level of self-confidence is too low, consequences in your sex life are inevitable. There are many reasons for lack of self-confidence, penis size is just one of them.
Men often worry about their looks and whether women find them attractive during sex. “Am I in good shape?”, “Do I have enough muscles?” are common questions we ask ourselves.
Another common source of insecurity is questioning our sexual experience and skill in sexual practices in order to be satisfying partners in bed. All these concerns lead to the fact that we cannot be open and free during sex.
Overconfidence will not do you any good
If you are a seasoned veteran of sex life and have slept with many women, the size of your confidence can increase rapidly.
A large amount of confidence is good for yourself, but it can be uncomfortable or even scary for your partner, especially if she’s far less experienced than you. During sex, it’s important to be on an equal footing and to listen to each other.
You have to be willing to learn in order not to come across as bossy or even insulting.
In bed, dialogue and understanding are crucial criteria. Remember: Overconfidence satisfies you, but certainly not your partner.
Trust in your partner counts
A man can have trust issues with his partner.
There are times when the trust you have in your partner will determine how great your sexual encounter will be.
A basis for good sex is a high level of mutual trust and understanding between lovers.
If this is not provided, you may not be able to fully express yourself, your likes and your dislikes.
At home or away? Location can affect your confidence
The level of your confidence depends not only on the person you are having sex with, but also on the place where you are having sex.
Surely you don’t want to spend half your time fearing an imminent disruption or threat of injury. For example, at the parents’ house or behind a fence.
Talk to your partner if you find yourself in an uncomfortable place, as an uncomfortable place will not allow you to enjoy sex to the fullest.
Finding the right level of confidence
So in the end it’s all about balance. When it comes to the size of your sexual confidence, “bigger is better” isn’t always true, and small won’t do you any good.
To avoid frustration or anger, there are a few important things you should do to keep your confidence at an optimal level. Be open to the vulnerability that sex brings. Be willing to learn.
Take your time and observe your partner and yourself to find what you enjoy during and outside of sexual situations. Most importantly, don’t be afraid to talk to your partner.
A good conversation about what you like and don’t like will boost your confidence tremendously and strengthen the bond between you two. Listen to your partner, but also listen to yourself, your body will not lie to you.
Sex should be one of the most pleasurable and pleasurable experiences you can have. And when your confidence is the right size, it will be.
